What is Benda'bitch?
Benda'bitch (verb) - Another slang term that any man should use. It's in replacement of anal sex, which most women will decline at the sound of. This is a sure-way of getting anal sex with a woman, only you have to benda'bitch instead.
Jessica - "So Jareth, what do you have planned for tonight?"
Jareth - "I don't know, how does anal sex sound to you?"
Jessica - "HELL no, something else in mind?"
Jareth - "Ok, ok. How about we benda'bitch instead. I promise you'll like it."
Jessica - "Sounds interesting! Let's do it!"