What is Dragon Lady?
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A slang referencing the once First Lady of Vietnam, who was known to control her husband, and hence, controlling Vietnam. Tends to be used towards Asian women who are in position of power. Their traits are aggressive, intimidating, calculating, high-achiever. But generally, they are also intelligent and beautiful.
Jesus, here comes the Dragon Lady so pretend you're busy.
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A term used to describe a stereotype of Asian women found in literature and film from the late 19th to the mid-20th century. A "dragon lady" was a woman of Asian heritage who was thought of as being sexually powerful and generally of a cunning, underhanded, conniving nature, who would use her beauty and sexuality to get what she wanted. Often accompanied in fiction with an opium pipe, jade jewelry, and wearing a Chinese dress, usually with dragons on it. They were usually depicted as snide, assertive, aggressive, sneaky and explosive in temperament.
The term is now generally used as a descriptive in a negative context, often to describe a non-Asian's misconception of Asian women. It is also used to describe a manipulative Asian woman, though this is less common.
OLD USE:
"I went to an opium den when I was on shore leave back during the war, and this dragon lady got me smoked up, fucked the hell out of me... and then I woke up with my wallet and clothes gone."
MODERN USE:
"I may be an Asian woman, but I'm not a dragon lady. I have a job and support myself."
"Tom is just an idiot who thinks if he dates an Asian, she'll be some sort of tantric dragon lady who'll have all sorts of spooky Eastern sex secrets."
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Asian
Don't fuck her, man. She's a Dragon Lady.
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derogatory term for an Asian woman usually an angry bitch.
"That dragon lady won't stop starring at me with her little squinty eyes."
guy1: "Hey. Where do you take your dry cleaning?"
guy2: "The dragon lady at the corner by the gas station."
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A severely sociopathic woman. 1.)Typically a despondant man's wife of many years. see -
"Your wife kicked you out of the house and then spray-painted pedophile wagon on your van?! - "Yep, she's a real dragon lady."
"So I married a dried up old dragon lady who couldn't reserect the strength to beep her LifeSign button, let alone reach orgasm."
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a woman who smokes to such an intense degree that her breath reeks of smoke
nicole, stop breathing in my face you dragon lady
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Female genitalia, including the labia.
Her dragon lady was neatly trimed with minimal flapage.