What is Dyke Daddy?
1.
A leatherdyke (kinky queer woman) who does ageplay as the older, protective partner in her relationship with another adult woman.
This is a consensual, acknowledged, sexualized role, often mixed with some variety of BDSM, especially D/s. Some dykes treat this relationship seriously, building family of choice, while others form strictly sexual/BDSM liasons while in scene.
The "child" of a dyke daddy, while adult, will ageplay as a a boy (boydyke, boidyke, dyke boi, butch woman) or a girl (grrl, grrldyke, femme woman etc). Ageplay as a teen is most common.
A dyke daddy is often butch (masculine in appearance/actions) but may be androgynous, ki-ki, futch or femme. She need not be actually older than her boi or grrl.
Daddy/boi, Daddy/grrl play is generally not incest-fetish, but closer to a nurturing power dynamic.
The woman over there in the leather chaps and engineer boots? She's my dyke daddy.
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2.
1) A man with an excessive fascination and attraction for lesbians and who goes out of his way to be around them in hopes that he might get laid or witness lesbian activity or both.
2) A gay male who hangs mostly around lesbians and often maintains a pimp like stature.
1) That dyke daddy knows were butch but if he wants to buy us another drink I wont stop him.
2) Geoffry was the number one dyke daddy and was even allowed in the girls restroom at the club