What is Pissing Up A Pole?
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a complete waste of time and effort that backfires anyway.
like spitting into the wind, but worse.
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If you've been nominated for the same award 4 times and never won, to nominate yourself _again_ is like pissing up a pole.
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actually realizing that you are fully on your own, that there is no one you can run to when things are bad, financially or emotionally s..
