What is Post Gay?
1.
Term used to describe same-gender-loving individuals that do not identify or associate with mainstream gay culture.
A "not so" judgmental or cunty gay man who is not flashy and doesn't act stuck up or above others.
This man would not be very flamboyant.
I can't stand going to gay clubs. Everyone seems too cool for school. I'd much rather hang out with other post gay men. They're not cunts.
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2.
A concept in contemporary culture characterized by a distrust of the need to draw attention to or make issue of sexual orientation.
A way to describe qualities or characteristics that may stereotypically be regarded as gay while simultaneously implying that labels based on sexual identity are unnecessary, old fashioned or irrelevant.
Sam: Did you watch American Idol last night? Adam Lambert is such a fag!
Susan: Grow up! Adam is a fantastic performer. He's totally post gay.
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