What is Power Donut?
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An effeminate male who is a bottom in a homosexual sexual relationship. Can be applied to a straight effeminate male who likes being penetrated anally, but rarely used as such. Comes from the combination of the terms "bumping donuts" and "power bottom". A power bottom is someone who loves being a bottom. Bumping donuts comes from a sarcastic response to two effeminate guys getting together with the assumption that they are both pure bottoms.. "What are they going to do -- bump donuts?" The implication being that sex isn't possible between two bottoms.
I think he's exactly your type; you're a macho top and hes a power donut.
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