What is S & M Bar?
Stand & Model Bar.
1. Sarcastic gay term for a bar inwhich the patrons primary concern is finding a wall with the most dramatic lighting only to pose, sip a drink, all while trying to exude a "look" of mystery and boredom.
2. A bar patronized by "plastic" homogenized women or men. A crowd with lots of veneer and little intellectual substance.
Kevin and I went to that new martini bar in boystown, it was purely an S & M bar, no one wanted to talk or have fun. It was all about pecs, hair product, concealer, and overpriced t-shirt from Bloomingdales.