What is Second Ask?
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what occurs right after the first ask if the first ask shot you down.
The second person you have lined up to ask to go out, do something, or invite to somewhere.
Not your first choice, but your second.
Jessica was my first ask to go skiing this weekend, but she was already busy so I had to resort to my second ask.
Yeah, John is my second ask for the Los Vegas Trip, but he's cute enough.
Don't worry if you can't come, you were my first ask, but I have a second lined up.
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