What is Spokey Dokey?
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i) A condition of melancholy, mixed with feelings of the bittersweet.
ii) A longing for something unattainable, with the realization and coming to peace with the fact that this something is unattainable. Inspired by the piece "Spokey Dokey" from the series
"Are you gonna ask her out, or just stare at her all day?"
"Spokey dokey man, there isn't a chance."
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