What is Tolerhate?
1.
To hate something but tolerate it in your daily life.
Family reunions were always tough for John as he had to tolerhate most of his in-laws.
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2.
To have to put up and shut up with a person, situation, co-worker etc. when you really want to shut them down, wipe out their family and anyone else who is in agreement and against yours when you know you're right.
I tolerhate my job and boss, but I must pay the bills and remain employed in order to raise my family.
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