What is Bi Now, Gay Later?
1.
An expression taken from "buy now, pay later." This refers to the (often untrue) assumption that bisexual people are going through a phase and will eventually come out as gay. It is usually considered offensive.
guy: you're gay, right?
me: I'm bi.
guy: bi now, gay later
or
guy: What was she doing with another woman? I thought she had a boyfriend.
girl: she's on the bi now gay later plan.
2.
When people come out as being Bi, before later revealing that they are actually Gay. Seen by some as easier than coming out.
"Jack told me he was Bi last night."
"Yeah, just the other half now."
"Yep...Bi now, gay later"
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