What is Havisham?
1.
To break up with someone after consciously exploiting their weakness of being in love, in order to reap the benefits (either materialistic or psychological) of said relationship. Often results in devastation on the affected party.
Allison drew Bill in, got some pretty baubles, and then totally havishamed his ass.
2.
Whilst a girl is giving a
"then down until i suddenly bite awake" - Carol Ann Duffy's poem, Havisham
